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💛 What I Learned from My Hospital Stay: A Reflection for My Clients & Community

  • crystalscottms5
  • Mar 27
  • 2 min read
“Be brave. Be resilient. Don’t take no for an answer.”

Over the past couple days, I experienced something unexpected — a sudden emergency that resulted in a hospital stay. While I’m recovering now, this experience brought about powerful lessons that I feel called to share with you, my clients, colleagues, and community.


🌿 The Importance of Advocating for Yourself


I had to advocate for myself countless times throughout this experience. When you’re in pain and vulnerable, it can feel incredibly defeating — like your voice doesn’t matter. But it does. And I kept fighting to be heard.


There were many moments when I felt unheard and unprioritized. I had to reach into the very same mental health toolkit I often offer to my clients:


  • Radical Acceptance

  • 🧘 Mindfulness and Meditation

  • 💬 Reframing Anxious Thoughts

  • 💖 Positive Self-Talk and Affirmations


🧡 Rest, Self-Care, and Being Proactive


If there’s one message I want to emphasize, it’s this: Don’t wait. Listen to your body. Prioritize your rest. Seek care when something doesn’t feel right.


Being proactive about our health and wellness — both physically and emotionally — is essential. Don’t let yourself burn out before giving your body the care it deserves.


👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 The Power of Support Systems


I was reminded how vital our relationships are. You never know when you’ll need your community — so be intentional about nurturing it.


To my family, thank you for being by my side. To my clients, thank you for your grace and loyalty as I navigated cancellations and rescheduling. Your kindness carried me through.


This experience deepened my commitment to nurturing the relationships that matter — and I encourage you to do the same.


🧘‍♀️ Meditations That Helped Me Through


Here are a couple meditations that brought me peace and grounded me during the hardest moments. I hope they support you too:



🛡 How to Advocate for Yourself (In Medical Situations or Beyond)


If you ever find yourself in a situation like mine, please remember:

✅ Speak up, even if your voice shakes

✅ Ask questions — you deserve clarity

✅ Bring a trusted friend or loved one if you can

✅ Write things down or ask for written instructions

✅ Trust your gut

✅ Ask for a second opinion

✅ Do your research

✅ Be persistent — you are worth fighting for


💬 Final Thoughts


If you’re struggling or feeling overwhelmed, please know:


You are not alone. You are allowed to speak up. You are allowed to rest. You are worthy of excellent care.


With gratitude and love,


Crystal Scott, MS, LMHC


📍 Visit CrystalScott.org for therapy resources and to book a session.

 
 
 

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